Mallory Brooke Winegarten

Born: Fri., May 3, 1996
Died: Sat., Nov. 9, 2013


6:00 PM to 8:00 PM, Wed., Nov. 13, 2013
Location: Sien Shelton Funeral Home Inc

Funeral Service

3:00 PM Thu., Nov. 14, 2013
Location: Skiatook High School Smac Center

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Mallory Brooke Winegarten

Funeral services for Mallory Brooke Winegarten will be held at 3:00 p.m. Thursday, November 14, 2013 at the Skiatook High School Smac Center with Rev. Steve Whitaker, officiating. Interment will follow in the Rose Hill Cemetery in Tulsa under the direction of the Sien-Shelton Funeral Home.

Mallory Brooke Winegarten, age 17, of Collinsville, died Saturday, November 9, 2013 at the St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa.

Mallory was born May 3, 1996 in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Melvin Larry and Mardell Irene (Connor) Winegarten. Mallory grew up and received her education in Skiatook starting out her first grade year and was currently a Senior at Skiatook High School. Mallory was active in Cheerleading with Skiatook High School and also had done gymnastics outside of her school activities. Mallory liked to fish, ride 4-wheelers, horseback riding but most of all she loved the lake, she loved to travel and loved the water parks.

Mallory was preceded in death by her father; Melvin Larry Winegarten, grandmother; Kathryn Winegarten and grandfather Donald Connor.

Mallory is survived by her mother and step-father; Mardell and Rick Phillips, sister; Misty Winegarten, brother Travis Connor and sister; Jade Winegarten, grandmother; Helen Connor and grandfather Mel Winegarten, several nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles and a host of other relatives and friends.

Casket escorts for the services are; Corey Stewart, Chad Black, Sean Black, Jeff “Bubba” Brown, Billy Tilley and Travis Connor.

Music for the services; “I’ll See You Again”, “I Can Only Imagine” and “I Will Remember You”.

A memorial has been established with the Skiatook Athletic Department in the memory of Mallory Brooke Winegarten. Those who wish to contribute in her memory may do so to: Skiatook Public Schools/ Skiatook Athletic Department 355 South Osage Skiatook, OK 74070.

Memorial has been established with Animal Aid in the memory of Mallory Brooke Winegarten. Those who wish to contribute in her memory may do so to: Animal Aid 7717 East 21st Street Tulsa, OK 74112.

Funeral services and interment are under the direction of the Sien-Shelton Funeral Home.

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Annette Smith
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
It is with such great saddness that Randy and I want you to know you are in our prayers, our thoughts and our hearts during this unimaginble time of loss. Randy and Annette Smith

Christy Mooney
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
Your family is in our hearts and prayers, My son went to school with Mallory and I heard she was a bright, cheerful and always smiling young lady. Although I didn't personally know Mallory I want to reach out to your family and loved ones with our thoughts and prayers, I know she will be dearly missed.

Bill & Lisa Dalton
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
We were Shocked and Saddened to hear about Mallory's passing. She was always a beautiful, Sweet, & Happy girl never more so than when she was picking on Misty at the Softball Games. She will be Truly Missed.
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Family.
Bill & Lisa Dalton

Elizabeth Roberts
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
Mardell & Misty -

Words fail me. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love always, Elizabeth Roberts

Ivy Freeman
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
Mardell, Misty, and Rick. You guys were like my second family, and I love you all with all my heart. It crushes me to know that she is gone. I miss her more than anything in this world, and I will never stop. She was the greatest girl I had ever met. I will never forget her or you guys. I love you guys.

Coach Tracy
   Posted Mon November 11, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I will always remember her warm, contagious smile.

Frank Sanders
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013

SPATHIPHYLLUM was sent by Frank Sanders.

My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. Frank Sanders family and Overhead Door Company of Tulsa - Commercial Division

Rebeccah Emberson
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
I was so saddened to hear of Mallory's passing. My prayers are with you, Misti, and your mom as you journey along this difficult trail. Words fail to express my sincerest sympathy. She was so very sweet and gentle and a blessing to all of us who were lucky enough to know her. God be with the both of you.

Leslie French
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013

You may not remember me but and I am Vickie and Shirley's friend. All of you sat at our table at Hayley's wedding. I remember thinking how beautiful and sweet Mallory was. I thought she looked some like Reagan also. I know that no words can ease you and your family's pain at this time. Just wanted you to know how sorry I am. For some reason God takes the good ones. We will find out the reason for that someday. Our family suffered the loss of my brother at 23 and my little cousin (girl) at 17 in a ten year time frame. It was devastating to say the least. We still grieve for them and miss them, but time is the only thing that helps. That and your faith in God. They will be waiting there for us with a smile and there will be tears of joy. When you feel up to it read the book "Heaven Is For Real". It will give you peace and joy. I know that is where your daughter is now.

Leslie French

   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of such a tragedy in the loss of such a young life as Mallory's. My deepest sympathy to the entire family and friends of Mallory. My thoughts and prayers are with Rick, Mardel, Helen and Misti who I know are dealing with such unbearable grief during this time. I will hold your family close to my heart always and pray that you will let GOD carry you through this most difficult time. I can not express in words how deeply felt my sympathy for your family is during this most sorrowful time. Lifting you up in prayer!

Michelle Lerch
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
Our hearts go out to your family. Mallory and Cody were classmates and he spoke of her often. What a beautiful young lady, prayers for comfort during this time.

Alexa Moss
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
Mal was such a sweet going soul. She strongly impacted the lives of so many people from Skiatook, and many other places. I had the privilege of cheering with this sweet girl in high school, when you cheer with someone you spend so much time together and out of all of those times I never once saw Mallory in a bad mood or without a big beautiful smile on her face. I loved her little hands.. She was so amazing and so talented.
I, along with so many others will always love, and miss Mal.

Jerry Davis
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
A couple of weeks ago my husband and I sat on the Skiatook side directly in front of the cheerleaders at the McAlester game. We both commented on one child who stood out because of the joy and positive attitude she exhibited. It was obvious her beauty was internal as well as external. We were saddened to see her story in the TW this morning but want you to know we are praying for your family and that your child touched people who never met her. Jerry and Glenn Davis, McAlester

Tanya Hunt - Cavin
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
There are no words to describe Kelbie, Aspen and my sadness for your loss. First I want to say what a blessing Mallory and your entire family have been to Kelbie Mae. Your family took her in and made her feel like she was always a part of your family no matter how long it had been since we had all spoken. Mallory was a beautiful person inside and out. I will remember her often by her laugh, big personality and her smile. Thank you for sharing your precious daughter with mine. It means the world.

Welch Family
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
Jordan and Mallory were classmates before we moved and he thought alot of her. Our hearts are crying with you!

Aleisha Syers-Wickersham
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
May God wrap his arms around you in your time of need and comfort your hearts. The whole Winegarten family is in my prayers and Misty I am here if there is anything you need, please let me know. I love you all very much.

Rebecca Antle
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
Thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family members and friends. There will be many tears shed in sorrow but let the tears of joy flow as you remember the good times you shared with you angel. Godspeed to you Mallory on your journal to Heaven.

Annette Smith
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013

AZALEA PLANT was sent by Randy and Annette Smith.

Paul and Carla Guthrie
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
There are just not enough words. We are so sorry for your loss. It has been several years since we have seen each other so naturally Mallory will always be an adorable little pre-schooler in our mind and hearts but she obviously grew up to be a beautiful young woman as we knew she would. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap His arms around you, hold you close and warm your heart with wonderful, sweet memories.

Jimmy Hoofard
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013


Praying for God's comfort during this time. Our deepest sympathy.

Dave and Lyn Monselle, Lyndsy Monselle-Byrd
   Posted Tue November 12, 2013
Through our granddaughter, Alexis Carbone, we were introduced to the second member of the “Dynamic Duo” - Mallory - and met/visited with Mardell, Rick, and Misty at football games as the girls cheered in grade school through high school. The 8 year relationship that grew between the girls was not only a joy between best friends, it brought a “bonus daughter” to Danielle, Greg, and Paul. We were privileged to spend time with her as well, and loved her for the joy she brought to all.
Her loss has brought great sorrow to us all, but her life has been a great blessing that has provided many sweet, funny, beautiful, sometimes hair raising, sometimes just ordinary, and proud moments frozen in memories to many lives. We are all blessed for having known her. God has chosen well for his newest angel, and our loss is His gain. Thank you to her family for helping guide her into being the wonderful, beautiful person she was from the inside out – and, oh, that smile!! Thank you, Mallory, for being you…….
(By the way, Mal - You will have your hands full being Alexis’s Guardian Angel, but we know you will always be with her, love her, continuing to share her life and adventures, and watching over her from above until you are together again - best friends.)
To Mallory’s entire family, we are so very sorry for your great loss of the blessing that was Mallory.
Dave and Lyn Monselle
Lyndsy Monselle-Byrd

Clark Brewster
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013

SHADES OF ELEGANCE was sent by Clark Brewster and Dana Cherry.

Mardell and Randy, please know you are in our thoughts and our hearts during this unimaginable time of loss. Words fail to express our deepest sympathy. Clark and Debbie Brewster and Dana Cherry

   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
I am so sorry for your sadness. My thoughts and prayers goes out to the family. Mallory was such a beautiful young lady. She will certainly be missed by all that knew her.

I love you all!

Alan Cline
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
There are no words I can say, I hope you find peace in this time of sadness.
Know I am praying for all of the family.


Denise Snoderly
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
Rick and Mardell our thoughts and prayers are with you both during this sad time. Just remember Mallory is in heaven now waiting for the rest of the family to someday join her.

Peggy Surritte
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013

FEATHERY PALM PLANT was sent by Peggy Surritte.

Wishing you refuge in the love that continues forever. In Sympathy and Prayer...The Surritte Family - Tony, Peggy, A.J., Jake and Shea

Brandon and Amanda Cooper
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
Our deepest condolences to Misty and to the rest of the Winegarten family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Patty Milliser
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
Rick & Mardel: Adding my thoughts and prayers to the many you will receive over the loss of Mallory. What a beautiful little girl who will now reign above as always young, always beautiful. There are no words to give you comfort, but just know that your family is being prayed for.

Janna, Joe and Shanna Duck
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
I am so sorry. But you all are in my heart just like family. Mallory was beautiful and loved by everyone. She will be truly missed. Love you guys. Mallory is watching and protecting you right now. My heart goes out to you all and rest in peace Mallory.

Susie Curry
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
I am friend of Mallory's Aunt; Debi Winegarten Johnson. I am so very, very sorry for your loss of your beautiful Mallory. I wish you peace and the support of your friends and family, as you learn to walk bravely through the days ahead. My deepest condolences. Susie Curry

Tom & Debby Lakin
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013
Rick & Mardell, Tom & I have been praying continually since last Friday morning for your whole family and will continue to lift you all up often in the days to come. Our hearts break knowing (a little of) what you are going through, as we have each lost a daughter. We will be looking forward to joining her in heaven along with all our other loved ones waiting there. We love you both!!

Jennifer Brock
   Posted Wed November 13, 2013

FEATHERY PALM PLANT was sent by Alan Brock.

Misty, Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong and in the fight, I know you will. Inspector Alan Brock and family.

Jennifer Smith
   Posted Thu November 14, 2013
I'm so sorry for your lose.. I pray peace and comfort for you as family and close personal friends. I send my deepest sympathy and prayers your way. another Angel has fallen to soon, but know that her spirit lives on wihtin you.

With Deep Sadness
Jennifer Smith

Fred & Kim Caudle Tulsa, OK
   Posted Thu November 14, 2013
Rick and Mardell and family,
Our heart goes out to each and everyone of you. We are praying for you and keeping you in our thoughts. God be with you and family during this time. If you need anything, we will always be there for you all.

Fred & Kim Caudle

Dale and Patti Hoofard
   Posted Thu November 14, 2013
Uncle Rick and Mardell, just to let you know how sorry and we are for your loss, the only words that come to mind is too young, too soon. Love always, Patti, Dale and Marina.

Denny & Joann Redmon
   Posted Fri November 15, 2013
Words are not adequate to express our sorrow for your loss. Mallory was the best friend to our great niece, Alexis Carbone. Heaven is much richer now that she has arrived. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Leticia Gonzalez
   Posted Fri November 15, 2013
I am sooo sorry for your loss! Such a beautiful girl. I did not know her personally, but can relate to the sudden loss of someone I and you love. She is not gone, she will always be in your hearts. She has relocated to Heaven where one day you all will be reunited. God will help you through this. Just have patience and faith. I just lost my nephew exactly a month ago. But I have deeply leaned on God. He is helping me get through such a tragic event, so lean on him, pray a lot and rely on your friends.

andrew turney
   Posted Mon November 18, 2013
always in my prayers i will always remember you i will never forget the good times i pray that you have a good time in heaven ill always miss you

Debi Winegarten Johnson
   Posted Sat November 30, 2013
As Mallory's aunt, her fathers sister, thank you for raising Mallory so beautifully. Rick, I especially want to thank you for walking into their lives and making a wonderful, loving stepfather for Mallory. Thank you so much, Rick..I'm sorry I have not mentioned it before. Misty, dear, I pray God gives me a double dose of special love for you, if I could ever love you more. Please know I am available for you dear anytime day or nite. Mardell, my heart does break for you, my sister. I look forward to make wonderful scrapbooks about Mallory's life time. Possibly I will be able to even travel with you and keep you company some time, who knows? Your life is going to change, and I want to be of whatever help that I can be. I thank God that he planted me back home in time for me to at least see my Mallory again before she broke her knee and be here for her homegoing. Now there are four Winegartens in the circle waiting for us and that does bring me comfort that they are fine. But for those of us who remain, it could be darkness before the light again for you dear...and for us who treasured her. God will see us through...that is the only way we can get through it. Mallory may not be an angel, but she and Larry's spirits are around you. When you feel it, they are there. You have been assigned a guardian angel from your birth and he is there. I do pray that the peace of the Holy Spirit will be present and known to you. I pray that you feel the hand of Jesus each day. With all of my love to you precious Misty are Mardell, love Aunt Debi

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